The way it should be

Ben decided to try gay dating. He loved to have a fling but now he wanted to be with somebody he could have a relationship with, not just a fling. He wanted to be able to hold somebody close to him and to hold them close to his heart. He wanted to hold somebody so close that he could smell their unique aroma and this would make him extremely happy. He remembered a fling he once had with some guy named Gerald. They got on really well and had a very intimate and passionate time together and it was fantastic, but once Ben realised he was becoming slightly emotionally attached, he ended the fling.

Ben loved the aroma of a hot man, especially when they just got out of the shower. The aroma of aftershave and male shower gel was just irresistible. Ben knew that he could only fall in love with a guy with an amazing aroma, one that would captivate him and make him so tempted to just touch them there and then.

So, as Ben was trying out the whole gay dating thing, he realised it was not for him. He realised that half the men, or in fact the majority of the men who were gay dating, were more interested in a fling or just a hot night of passion, and not interested in a real relationship. He wanted love, not lust, and yes, while he wanted intimacy he did not want pointless passion. He wanted to share some significant passion.

Ben decided to take a trip around the world. He was fed up of the men in his life where he was now and decided to take a break. He wanted to see the world. This was his ambition. His drive. He wanted to climb mountains, walk through deserts, take pictures of pyramids, sky dive, walk through forests, and just be able to explore all the different places.

When Ben was in France, he met a really nice man named Alfie and they hit it off straight away, and Alfie joined Ben on his travels.