The way it should be

I am really enjoying dating this lovable,goodlookingguy I met a few months ago. We get along great and always have a wonderful time when we are together. I am a bit uncertain whether he likes me as much as I like him and I am not sure how to find out. I asked my friends and they all say he's crazy about me but the truth is he's never actually said it.

We starteddating after one of my co-workers set us up. Our first date was perfect, there were no awkward moments of silence and we shared a kiss at the end of the evening that was very, very sweet. For the first time in a long time I felt wanted, lovable and sexy. He was very straight forward and told me he works a lot of hours and that he doesn't really have to much time for relationships or datingbut that he would try to make some extra time for me.

We usually don't see each other during the week. He works long hours and gets in very late so I only get to talk to him several times during the week and always during the day. I would love to be able to talk to him before bedtime, at least to day goodnight but his phone is usually off in the evenings. I would also love to be able to kiss him goodnight and drift of to sleep with him next to me but he has never spent the night at my place.

I am trying to get up the courage to have a serious talk about our relationship, I need to know what he feels for me and how serious he is taking me. He needs to tell me if he still considers us only dating or if I am more to him. It is very confusing to date someone you really like and not know where that person stands. I have tried bringing it up before but as soon as he sense where the conversation is going he hugs me and tells me how lovable I am and gives me a kiss. Yet he never says he loves me. Hopefully we can have a nice long conversation very soon so I can decide whether to keep going or cut my losses.