The way it should be

I had spent my whole adult life being the other half of a couple. i never just experienced a fling or just sex, i was always someones elses other half. I bounced from relationship to relationship and never played the Field. I had always wondered what a fling would be like, would I get emotionally involved or could i actually manage sex with no strings attached. Everyone around me was always so convinced that every guy i dated was my soul mate. They all said I had seemed like the kind of girl who wanted to find her soul mate soon in life, but I never saw it that way. I never guessed that I would one day get to experience being alone, but I did and I was planning to take full and immediate advantage of that.

Suddenly single i asked my never settle best friend Julie if she knew of any ways i could meet a guy who could be good for a quick fling. Julie who was the queen of flings said she knew of a few dating services that didn't offer dating but flings and said she can sign us both up. I was so excited to not be a couple with anyone and to have my first real one night stand coming soon, I quickly agreed.

When we had gotten to the place of meeting I thought i was going to pass out form the excitement,I washappy, single, and ready to mingle.I actually did get allot of phone numbers and even a date forlaterthat week.The date was planned as just dinner and nothing more but our date last well into the hours of morning. I never saw him a few more times after that but we were keeping it casual, nothing serious. Julie joked how I was starting to be more slutty then her and i didn't care I was having fun and as long as I was being safe nothing else mattered.

I loved not having to worry about finding a soul mate for a while after all I was in my mid twenties I did not need to apart ofa couple