The way it should be

My wife of 6 months who I met on an on-line dating site has recently been bringing up the fact that she would like to try swinging. I am a bit old fashioned because this is not something that I had ever even contemplated doing, but I should have known when I decided to marry a woman 20 years younger than me that I would have to be doing a lot of new things. I am not sure if I am comfortable with it but I promised that we could talk about it tonight over dinner, so I have better make a decision today.

I love my wife, I am very much in love with her and for me to even imagine me swinging with her and letting another man have sex with her is very uncomfortable. I don't know if I will have the strength to go through with it. I have no interest at all in having sex with another woman; if I did Iwouldn'thave gotten married. I would have staid single andsleptaround, but I made aconsciousdecisionto marry and in thatdecisionI thought it includedmonogamoussex.

I don't know how it will affect my marriage if I deny my wife what she wants right now which is to try swinging, I don't know maybe she's tried it before and never told me about it but I just can't see it happening so I think my answer will have to be no. If she gets really upset maybe I can go get her some jewelry. If it's better sex she wants then I’m sure there are other things that we can do to liven it up, I am all of great sex, as long as it's just between the two of us.

Maybe we can try toys, costumes and lots of other things. Last time in the middle of sex I heard her whisper that she wanted to have another female join us and that might just work out fine, as long as there is nootherman touching her I am fine with a woman. Okay so I have my answer ready, no to swinging but yes to adding another woman to our lovemaking. Hopefully this answer will placate her and make her happy. I heard on TV the other day, a happy wife is a happy life and that is so true so I hope she is not upset with me during dinner tonight.